Signs a Libra Man Is Not into You - (10 ways to tell)


Intelligent, optimistic, and put-together, Libra men can be irresistibly attractive. If you’re not having luck with that Libra man in your life, there could be a good reason why.

In this guide, I’ll go over ten of the most common signs that a Libra man is not into you, as well as some potential reasons this may be the case. 

Want to know more about Libras and how to score them? Make sure to check out Libra Man Secrets. After reading it, I felt almost as if I had a secret weapon that would help me win over my Zodiac crush. I suspect it can be useful for you, too!

Now, without further ado, let’s jump into this piece to find out if (and why) that Libra man in your life doesn’t want to take the next step with you. 

Libra Man Turn-ons

It’s difficult to understand a Libra man’s actions if you don’t understand his heart. In this section, I’ll go over some turn-ons that get Libra men excited about their partners. If the following doesn’t sound like you, there is a chance that he’s simply not interested.

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1. Sophistication

Nothing gets a Libra man’s attention quite like sophistication. These men are naturally attracted to women who hold their heads high and are able to see the finer points of life.

In other words, they’re not seeking common women who simply go with the flow of the crowd; instead, they’re looking for more refined women with a strong sense of identity who can think (and talk) about more serious topics. 

2. Romance

On a similar note, Libra men are also big fans of romance. This means that they’re not simply seeking a good time. Relationships aren’t simply physical to them. They want someone full of life and dreams with whom they can build a life over the long term.

Libra Man Turn-offs

Even if you’re not exactly what a Libra man is looking for, there’s a better chance he’ll like you if you don’t exhibit the following traits:

1. Messiness

Libras are all about order when it comes to the home. Not only will your Libra date be turned off by a messy house, he’ll also likely be less than impressed if your home isn’t well decorated.

For this reason, you want to make sure your home, work area, and attire are all on-point.

2. Negativity

Libra men are natural optimists, which means in part that they shy away from people who aren’t. They can’t stand being around people who are constantly negative and will take steps to break away from them if they see no end to the misery.

How to Tell if a Libra Man Is Not Interested

If you don’t check the above boxes very well, there’s a chance that that Libra man in your social circle isn’t really into you. Fortunately, there are some easy ways to tell whether that’s the case. 

Let’s go over ten of the most common signs that a Libra man simply has no plans of being with you:

1. Poor Communication

Libra men are not only intelligent; they’re also great multitaskers. This means there’s no excuse for poor communication if a Libra man is into you. 

And the truth is this: once a Libra man has fallen in love (or even just has a crush on someone), he will do whatever it takes to find out more about that person. He’ll talk to you for hours just to get to know you better, and he’ll engage you in all types of fun conversation.

If you find dialogue with that Libra man you know to be slow-going, then, you can take this as a sure sign that he doesn’t see you as someone to date, or at least not long term. 

2. Zero Emotional Attachment

Libra men are naturally distant and don’t always express their emotions. Still, if that Libra man in your life seems a little too quiet or distant, it’s probably because he is. 

Though it’s not uncommon for a Libra to wait on someone else to make the first move, you can expect him to still be around you as much as possible.

This means you shouldn’t take it lightly if that Libra man in your social circle is never really around you. 

The truth of the matter is that he would be if he were into you—at least some of the time. If you’re not sure, you may consider reaching out to him first and gauging his reaction.

3. Doesn’t Take Your Side

When it comes to your personal and professional challenges—as well as conflicts with other people—Libra men who are in love will never fail to take your side. 

These men are deeply involved with the people they like, so much so that they will do anything to help them get out of a bad situation.

If your Libra crush isn’t taking your side, then, this is a clear sign that he doesn’t view you romantically. You’ll know this if you’ve ever dated a Libra in the past—or even had one as a friend. 

Because these men take an all-or-nothing approach with the people they’re close to, it’s quite easy to tell just how invested a Libra is by simply seeing if he’s around when the going gets tough for you.

4. Lies to You

Even if a Libra man is unhappy, there’s a good chance he won’t go out and say it directly. These men value social and personal harmony above all else, and they find it difficult to hurt the feelings of other people in their lives. 

If they’re not into you, then, they may simply make all kinds of promises they can’t keep or engage in other white lies just to keep you happy.

If you find out that your Libra man is constantly lying to you, you may want to consider the reasons why. It could very well be that he is unhappy in the relationship and doesn’t know how to end it.

5. Makes Petty Arguments

This is particularly true if your Libra man constantly engages in petty arguments. 

When a Libra man wants out of a relationship, he’ll actually resort to sowing discord and disharmony just so that you get tired of being with him. Because harmony is so important to a Libra man, you shouldn’t take it lightly if he’s willing to engage in conflict without much facilitation on your end. 

Simply put, this is a good sign that he’s tired of being with you and doesn’t know another way of ending the relationship without hurting you too much.

6. Rarely Meets You

A Libra man in love wants to be around his partner—or his crush. During the courting stage, a Libra man will meet often with the person he loves to try and woo them and sweep them off their feet. 

If that Libra man in your life isn’t doing this, this is a sign that he’s not to the point where he finds you irresistible. 

If you’re already dating a Libra and he stops meeting you or always has an excuse, you can bet that this, too, is a sign of an underlying problem in your relationship.

7. Doesn’t Show You Off

Perhaps you do go out with your Libra man, but things don’t seem quite right. Generally speaking, Libra men love to show off their partners in public. They’ll hold hands, give kisses, and proudly display their affection in front of others to see. 

While it’s not an immediate indictment of your relationship if a Libra man isn’t doing this, it should be taken as an indication that perhaps he’s not as happy as he could be. 

8. Criticizes You

This is certainly the case if he also criticizes you a lot. The reality is that Libra men tend to build up their partners, even irrationally so, so that they feel loved and supported. If he’s always criticizing you, then, you may consider this a sign that he’s just not that into you. 

He may criticize your habits, your work, your ideas, or even the way you dress. In many cases, he’ll do this as an active deterrent to a relationship. If you’ve been hitting on him and get this in response, take it as a clear sign that he doesn’t want the relationship.

9. Doesn’t Support Your Dreams

Libra men are among the least practical of the Zodiac. If they suddenly become pragmatic about your dreams, then, there’s a good chance these air signs are simply expressing their disinterest in you. 

The truth of the matter is this: when a Libra man likes you, he will build you up and encourage you to pursue your dreams, no matter how lofty they may seem on the surface.

10. Selfish in the Bedroom

When a Libra man is in love, it shows in the bedroom. He’s the type of guy who puts his partner’s needs ahead of his own, and he’ll engage in all types of foreplay and whatever you’re into to get you excited and feeling great. 

That’s why you should take notice if he’s only caring about himself. A Libra man who isn’t in love won’t engage in foreplay, and he’ll stop once he’s satisfied. If that’s the case with your Libra partner, you can bet that he’s not seriously into you. 

What do you do when a Libra man pulls away?

When a Libra man pulls away, it can feel as if he doesn’t want anything to do with you. But the truth is that maybe what they need isn’t necessarily more of your time or attention; instead try being there for them when things get tough


The Bottom Line

What do you think—is that special Libra man in your life into you? By now, you should have a pretty good idea.

In this guide, I went over ten of the most common signs that a Libra man doesn’t want to be with you, as well as some important personality trait information about men of this zodiac sign.

If your Libra crush isn’t into you, you may consider reforming your lifestyle based on the personality information here (it really can help!) or simply moving on (only you can know which is best for your situation). Whatever the case, make sure to use this guide and Libra Man Secrets as a valuable resource when dealing with your Libra crush!

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