How to Win a Cancer Mans Heart


So you’re looking to attract that Cancer man in your life. Emotional, loyal, and protective, these men are naturally sensitive and make good lovers, though it can be hard to earn their affection if you don’t play by the rules.

You’ll find even more information about Cancer males from relationship astrologer Anna Kovach, in her Cancer Man Secrets book make sure to give it a read.

In this guide, I’ll tell you just what you need to do to win a Cancer man. I’ll also go over some important Cancer personality traits so that you’ll have a better shot of landing him. Pay attention to the following tips if you want to increase chances of getting your Cancer crush to fall in love with you!

Also Read: How to impress a Cancer man

Cancer Man Personality

Before jumping into the meat of this how-to, let’s first review some important Cancer man personality information. Understanding how a Cancer man feels and lives his life will aid you in your attempts to woo him. Generally, Cancer men are:

1. Sensitive 

As the first water sign of the zodiac, Cancer men are naturally sensitive. They can quickly become emotional and are highly protective of the woman they love.

Once they fall in love with someone, they remain loyal and empathetic, and they tend to prioritize their partners’ needs over their own. In short, your Cancer man likely has a big heart, which will help you in your quest to win him over and make him yours.

2. Slow-Paced

Cancer men also tend to be slower paced, plodding along at their own speed. This sign of the zodiac is controlled by the moon, meaning a Cancer man is naturally romantic and caring.

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Still, don’t expect any grand gestures of love, especially not out of the gate. Cancer men are introverts who may take their relationships slowly and prefer to do things privately.

How to Win Over a Cancer Man

Without the right techniques, you can have a time of it trying to steal the heart of a Cancer man. For this reason, make sure to try out the following tips to give what your Cancer man loves:

1. Listen to Him

This may sound obvious, but it’s crucial you take this one seriously. If you want to win the heart of a Cancer man, you should make sure you’re always listening—and I mean really listening—to what he has to say. At the end of the day, these men want to be heard by the people they love.

Read next: Ways to Impress a Cancer Man

They are naturally intuitive and feel that their input has value but are also highly sensitive at times and can get offended if they believe you don’t care what they talk about. Obviously, this is a major turnoff, especially if he’s talking about his dreams or is trying to give advice.

For this reason, be sure to take the time to actually listen to him (and want to hear what he says!). You can be sure he’ll know when you’re really tuned in and when you’re faking it! 

Also read Cancer Man Secrets by Anna Kovach where she reveals some more top tips about Cancer men!

2. Prioritize Your Family

Cancer men tend to be old fashioned and family oriented, placing heavy emphasis on traditional values. A Cancer man will honor his mother and treat his wife like a queen. He will never want to make anyone feel excluded. For this reason, one way you can win his heart is to prioritize your own family.

Next up: How to Tell if a Cancer Man Really Loves You

These men are naturally attracted to family-oriented women, so your dedication in this regard will be a major plus to him. 

At the end of the day, a Cancer man is looking for a partner he can trust to build a life with. You can show him you’re the right fit by maintaining good ties with your family and inviting your crush around them whenever you get the chance. 

Read Next: When a Cancer Man Has a Crush on You

3. Build Him Up

Another way to win the trust and heart of a Cancer man is to build him up. Naturally nurturing themselves, these men love when their partners return the favor. In a partner, these men are seeking security and steadiness, which means that you’ll both need to be there for him when he’s down and on a daily basis.

Big fans of traditional values, Cancer men love it when their partners cook for them and take care of the household chores. In the eyes of a Cancer, these actions are a sign of dedication and security that coincide with healthy living. 

Given this, if you really want to win the heart of a Cancer man and become his woman, make sure you’re there to nurture him and look after his needs.

And don’t mistake this as a one-way street: he will also be looking after you in his own manner (Cancer men are the most nurturing male signs of the zodiac, after all), even if you must make the first move. When the two of you are working in harmony, you may find a stronger relationship and a deeper bond.

4. Touch Him the Right Way

You may also give your relationship with a Cancer man a boost simply by touching them in the right spot—and not just in the bedroom.

Cancer men are sensitive and responsive to touch and can know by the way you hold their hands or brush their arms how much you really care about them.

Show him a sign of your love by taking his hand in public when others are watching, rubbing his shoulders after a long day’s work, or simply giving him a kiss goodnight. This affection will help him know your love and feel more secure (and more willing to participate in) the relationship.

Of course, you can also apply this tip to the bedroom. If you want to take your relationship to the next level, be sure to be a woman who pleases him under the covers.

Focus on what he’s most responsive to and build on that—he will undoubtedly do the same for you.

The Bottom Line

As you can see, it’s not too hard to win a Cancer man heart—if you know what you’re doing, that is. By following the advice in this guide, you’ll be able to build bonds with your Cancer crush so that the two of you can embark on a strong, loving relationship.

Whether that Cancer guy in your life is already a friend or remains a stranger, you can use these effective tips to turn the tide and deepen your connection.

Cancer Man Secrets by Anna Kovach is an excellent book that offers some more top tips to help you deal winning your cancer man’s heart.

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