How to Know If an Aries Man Is Rejecting You
Suspect that your relationship with that special Aries man is cooling down? Feel that something has changed but can’t quite put your finger on it? Don’t worry—I’ll tell you how to know if an Aries man is rejecting you so that you can make the changes necessary to save your relationship.
In this guide, I’ll go over some of the most common ways an Aries guy will react when he starts to drift away. Keep reading to find out!
1. He Doesn’t Give You Attention
All Aries men are somewhat self-absorbed—let’s just say it comes with the territory. Still, they always make time for the people they love. Simply put, an Aries man doesn’t date someone if he’s not proud of her. To him, you are someone he can show off, an extension of his success. If he’s not giving you attention, then, this is a big warning sign.
Why? It’s simple. Aries men are known to bounce from one activity—or even person—to the next once they get tired of what they are currently focused on. If he’s not giving you attention, then, he’s giving to someone or something else. In other words, you’ve started to bore him and he’s rejecting you in the way that’s most natural to him.
2. Things Are Quiet in the Bedroom
Aries men are energetic, aggressive, and quite alpha, meaning they love spending alone time with their lovers. If things have quieted down in your bedroom, this is a sure sign that he isn’t feeling the hots for you the way he used to. Ask yourself this question: are you making love as much as you did when you first started dating? A little drop off is okay—even normal, depending on how busy the two of you have become—but if things have cooled down entirely, this means you have some work to do.
If you want to be sure, here’s what I recommend: try making things spicy in the bedroom as often as possible. This is helpful in two ways: first, it could help rekindle something if the fire is being lost (Aries men love spontaneity, after all); and second, it could shed some light on how he feels about you. If, for instance, he rejects your advances, you can be sure that things have changed between you and him.
Read next: How to Deal With an Angry Aries Man
3. He Spends Time Alone
You can also surmise this quite safely if he starts spending large periods of time alone or out with other people. As his lover, you are his go-to option for adventure and fun. If you notice a drop in the amount of time the two of you spend together—and this drop isn’t due to work or other non-negotiable factors—this indicates that he has lost some of the passion that he used to feel toward you.
This doesn’t mean, of course, that he can’t spend any time alone, but, as Aries men are known for their desire to be social and adventurous, it should definitely raise an eyebrow if he suddenly starts wanting to roll solo.
4. The Conversation Turns Dull
Aries men don’t stay on any one topic for too long. This means that they hold a variety of interests and are great at talking about just about anything. You can expect unique and thought-provoking conversations from an Aries. As such, you should be a bit suspicious if the conversation between you and your Aries man grows dull. Whether it happens suddenly or occurs over time, the transformation of lively conversation into routine or dull chit-chat is a sure sign that he’s not as into you as he used to be. Maybe you try talking to him, but he’s non-committal or replies briefly. This is a bad sign.
It’s doubly bad if he’s not that way with his friends or coworkers. If he’s only acting this way around you, it’s time to admit that he is rejecting you. While this doesn’t mean that the relationship must end, it does mean that the two of you likely have serious stuff to work through before you can get back to the way things were.
5. He Doesn’t Go Out with You in Public
Whether the two of you live together or just generally meet in public, you should suspect something is wrong if he suddenly doesn’t meet with you outside anymore. Aries men love to be around the women they love—and they love for people to see it. These men are possessive and happy to show off what they believe to be theirs. As such, you shouldn’t take it lightly if he suddenly “doesn’t have time” to meet or says “maybe some other time” to meeting at your favorite spot. Generally speaking, this is not the behavior of an Aries man who is in love with you—it’s the behavior of a man who is trying to disengage.
Of course, there will be times when meeting outside is hard to do and he is genuinely busy. Still, if such behavior becomes a habit—and especially if he’s doing something else in his free time—you can count this as a sign that he’s looking to move on.
The Bottom Line
Aries men are blunt and passionate, but they don’t always speak directly when they are looking to break up or stop seeing that special someone. For this reason, you might have to look for clues to know whether or not that Aries man of yours is rejecting you. In this guide, I went over some of the most common ways this type of man will do this.
Does your man do any of the stuff described in this piece? Perhaps he does more than one. If that’s the case, I recommend sitting down and talking to him about how you feel. This may help change whatever negative dynamic is in your relationship so that the two of you can course-correct and live together happily.
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