How to Know If an Aries Man Is Rejecting You

Suspect that your relationship with that special Aries man is cooling down? Feel that something has changed but can’t quite put your finger on it? Don’t worry—I’ll tell you how to know if an Aries man is rejecting you so that you can make the changes necessary to save your relationship.

In this guide, I’ll go over some of the most common ways an Aries guy will react when he starts to lose interest and drifts away. Keep reading to find out!

If you want more ways to learn how an Aries man is rejecting you, I recommend the book Aries Man Secrets by Anna Kovach.

1. He Doesn’t Give You Attention

All Aries men are somewhat self-absorbed—let’s just say it comes with the territory. Still, they always make time for the people they love. Simply put, an Aries man doesn’t date someone if he’s not proud of her. To him, you are someone he can show off, an extension of his success. If he’s not giving you attention, then, this is a big warning sign.

Why? It’s simple. Aries men are known to bounce from one activity—or even person—to the next once they get tired of what they are currently focused on. If he’s not paying attention towards you or acting like he’s not really interested, then, he’s giving to someone or something else. In other words, you’ve started to bore the Aries man is rejecting you in the way that’s most natural to him.

The Aries man will not beat around the bush if the Aries man does no longer want to carry on pursuing what you both have. He will make clear signs to you that he’s not interested anymore and will put you towards the back of his head and will make sure he doesn’t waste time moving onto someone else’s attention.

2. Things Are Quiet in the Bedroom

Aries men are energetic, aggressive, and quite alpha, meaning they love spending alone time with their lovers. If things have quieted down in your bedroom and you feel his lack of passion and attraction, this is a sure sign that he isn’t feeling the hots for you the way he used to. Ask yourself this question: are you making love as much as you did when you first started dating? A little drop off is okay—even normal, depending on how busy the two of you have become—but if things have cooled down entirely, this means you have some work to do.

If you want to be sure, here’s what I recommend: try to make sure you’re spicing things up in the bedroom as often as possible. This is helpful in two ways: first, it could help rekindle something if the fire is being lost (Aries men love spontaneity, after all); and second, it could shed some light on how he feels about you. If, for instance, man is rejecting advances, you can be sure that things have changed between you and him.

Read next: How to Deal With an Angry Aries Man

3. He Spends Time Alone

You can also surmise this quite safely if he starts spending large periods of time alone or out with other people. As his lover, you are his go-to option for adventure and fun. If you notice a drop in the amount of time the two of you spend together—and this drop isn’t due to work or other non-negotiable factors—this indicates that this Aries guy has lost lack of the passion that he used to feel toward you.

This doesn’t mean, of course, that he can’t spend any time alone, but, as Aries men are known for their desire to be social and adventurous, it should definitely raise an eyebrow if he suddenly starts wanting to roll solo.

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4. The Conversation Turns Dull

Aries men don’t stay on any one topic for too long. This means that they hold a variety of interests and are great at talking about just about anything. You can expect unique and thought-provoking conversations from an Aries. As such, you should be a bit suspicious if the conversation between you and your Aries man doesn’t pay attention to your conversations and they start to become dull or you start to feel like you’re getting mixed signals from the Aries man.

The Aries man might start to avoid your calls or text messages even though you are still dating th Aries man he will start giving you mixed signals. Whether it happens suddenly or occurs over time, the transformation of lively conversation into routine or dull chit-chat is a sure sign that he’s not interested or into you as he used to be.

Make sure you try talking to him, but he’s non-committal or replies briefly. This is a bad sign.

It’s doubly bad if he’s not that way with friends or coworkers or others that he socializes with. If he’s only acting this way around you, it’s time to admit that the Aries man is rejecting you. While this doesn’t mean that dating an Aries must end, it does mean that the two of you likely have serious stuff to work through before you can get back to the way things were, and those butterfly feeling you had for each other on your first date.

5. He Doesn’t Go Out with You in Public

Whether the two of you live together or just generally meet in public, you should suspect something is wrong if he suddenly doesn’t like the idea to meet with you outside anymore or starts avoiding you. An Aries man loves to be around the women they love—and they love for people to see it.

These men are possessive and happy to show off what they believe to be theirs. As such, you shouldn’t take it lightly if he suddenly “doesn’t have time” to meet or says “maybe some other time” to meeting at your favorite spot. Generally speaking, this is not the behavior of an Aries man who is in love with you—it’s the behavior of a man who is trying to disengage.

Of course, there will be times when meeting outside is hard to do and he is genuinely busy. Still, if such behavior becomes a habit—and especially if he’s started to explore something else in his free time—you can count this as an obvious sign that he’s looking to move on and thinks that you and he are no longer strong together.

The Bottom Line

Aries men are blunt and passionate, but they don’t always speak directly when they are looking to break up or stop seeing that special someone. For this reason, you might have to look for clues to know whether or not that Aries man of yours is rejecting you. In this guide, I went over some of the most common ways this type of man will do this.

Does your man do any of the stuff described in this piece? Perhaps he does more than one. If that’s the case, I recommend sitting down and talking to him about how you feel. This may help change whatever negative dynamic is in your relationship so that the two of you can course-correct and live together happily.

Anna Kovach’s Aries Man Secrets is another recommended book for understanding how and Aries man rejects someone!