How to Keep a Gemini man Happy (12 ways to make him happy)
Having a Gemini man in your life can be thrilling and exciting. Being an air sign, they know no boundaries and have an open mind that is keen to explore almost anything and converse about nearly every topic under the sun. Gemini men have busy minds and busy lives, and it is essential to know how to adapt and adjust yourself to the nature, habits, and lifestyle of a Gemini man if you want to keep him happy. Below I will give you twelve tips to help you ensure you keep your Gemini man happy in your relationship at all times.
How to Keep a Gemini Man Happy
Do not pressure him.
Gemini men prefer to just go with the flow, and they rarely stick to a strict schedule or routine. Avoid placing too many responsibilities and expectations onto him, as he can easily buckle under the pressure and run for the hills. Allow your Gemini man space and freedom to be himself and do as he pleases. Do not shower him with chores, tasks, and responsibilities, as he can quickly become overwhelmed and frustrated if others place too many expectations onto him.
Positivity is king
A Gemini man does not want to be with a negative Nancy. Avoid being pessimistic, critical, and overly emotional, as this can make a Gemini man feel uncomfortable in your presence, which can likely cause him to become disconnected from you. Try seeing the glass as half full, instead of half-empty, and show him you see things through bright, enthusiastic, and cheerful eyes, and he will love spending time with you and talking to you.
The best way to keep your Gemini man interested in you is to keep him guessing. Do not disclose everything about yourself straight off the bat, and open up slowly but surely. Make sure there is always something new he can discover about you. As soon as he thinks he knows you, surprise him with another element of your life or personality he was never aware of. Ensure you are always keeping him guessing, and his attention will always be on you.
Laughter is key
Nothing makes a Gemini man happier than funny, comical situations and conversations that induce laughter in him. A surefire way to make a Gemini man enjoy being in your company is to make him laugh regularly. Gemini men crack the best jokes around, and they know how to get everyone around them chuckling. Similarly, Gemini men hold a special place in their hearts for those who can make them laugh as well.
Don’t try and change him.
Bossy, pushy, and controlling behaviors are extremely offputting to a Gemini man. He wants to be with a woman who loves and appreciates him for who he is and who he can experience the adventures life has to offer with. Trying to change who he is, what he does, or what he believes in will not go down well, and this will result in him being very unhappy, and he will likely lead a life that he keeps separate from you.
A Gemini man will likely have many acquaintances and friends with whom he enjoys engaging in all kinds of activities with. He does not want a partner who is going to tag along with everything he does and be joined to the hip with him. Aim to have friends and activities that you engage with on your own without him, and show him you do not always need him around to get things done or be happy.
Ask him for his opinion.
Gemini men believe that each person has the right to their opinion. They love hearing others’ beliefs and viewpoints, as seeing life and topics through different perspectives is essential to them. Most Gemini men are always listening to others and what they are saying, but they rarely tell others what it is they believe in. Ask him what he thinks, and give him space to open up and talk about his beliefs while you genuinely listen to him.
Give him lots of space.
If you love a Gemini man, it is essential to bear in mind that he will likely have friends and activities he engages in that he keeps separate from you. This does not mean he does not love you. Autonomy and independence are extremely important to a Gemini man, as Gemini belongs to the air element. If he can see you allow him the space to be himself, it will make him extremely happy.
There might be days, sometimes even weeks, where you might not hear from your Gemini man. He might act caring, loving, and compassionate the one day, but cold and distant the next day. Being a dual sign, Gemini men lack consistency, and they can have many different sides to them. Do not let this put you off, and allow him to be who he is without getting angry or upset with his inconsistent behavior.
Surprise date nights
Take your Gemini man to places he has never been to, adventures he has never been on, or to meet new people he has not met before. Do not disclose everything you are doing initially. Be sure to surprise him with unexpected and exciting activities every now and then. This will keep the spark going, and it will keep him guessing what is coming next. Do not be too shy to try out some weird and wonderful things; your Gemini man will likely thank you for it!
Be spontaneous and exciting.
Nothing is more off-putting to a Gemini man than a woman who lacks a taste for life and a sense of adventure and curiosity. Show him you are interested in all kinds of interesting topics and that you are willing to engage in fun and exciting activities with him. Surprise him every now and then with a side to you he has never seen before, or share your knowledge on a topic you have never discussed before.
Gemini men have a reputation for being flakey; however, this only happens when they have lost interest in you. If you are going to act suspicious and jealous, he will likely run for the hills. Allow him to do what he wants and engage with who he wants without feeling insecure or worried about it, and you will see he will be extremely grateful that you have trust and faith in him.
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