How to Get Back an Aquarius Man - 5 Tips That Really Work
Already sick of your breakup with that special Aquarius man? Looking for ways to win back his heart? I’m here to help. In this guide, I’ll go over everything you need to know and do to win back the feelings of your Aquarius love.
Whether you broke up with him or he dumped you, you’ll have to play by the rules if you want to get an Aquarius man back. Keep reading for specific information on how to do so—and on how keep him for good.
Aquarius Men Turn-offs
Before jumping into the meat of it, I want to tell you some reasons your Aquarius man may have left in the first place. Specifically, there are a number of turn-offs for men of this Zodiac sign, and you’ll want to understand and potentially rectify them if you really want him to come back.
There’s nothing an Aquarius hates more than the same old, same old. Routines can make him feel as if he is trapped, and he’ll do anything to escape—even break up. These free-spirited men like having their options open and never like being held down. If you really want your Aquarius man back, you’ll need to be prepared to spice things up from time to time so that things don’t go stale.
Even if you’re naturally clingy, you’ll want to work on that around an Aquarius man. These men prefer partners who are confident, independent, and know what they want. Constant clinginess works against that image—big time. Of course, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t spend time together. It simply means that you need to distance yourself and become more independent in the relationship.
How to Get Your Aquarius Man Back
Now that I’ve gone over some of the basics, it’s time to examine some specific strategies that will help make your Aquarius man come back to you.
1. Reinvent Yourself
Want to keep your man and get back your relationship? You may have to take drastic measures. If you were the one to blame for the relationship falling apart, it’s up to you to reinvent yourself to get back together with your Aquarius man.
There are notable benefits to this: for starters, you have a chance to shed any of the negative qualities that turned him off in the first place. Just as important, you can make him feel more interested by showing a new side to yourself. Remember what I said earlier? Aquarius men love new things, so yours may be delighted to see you in a different light.
2. Look Hot
As part of this, you’ll want to make sure you look hotter than ever before. Maybe you are doing so already (or maybe you’re not). Either way, it’s important that you look your best next time he sees you. Why? Men of this Zodiac sign (and men in general) are highly visual and respond to physical cues. If he sees you looking amazing, he may want to get back with you.
How you change is up to you—only you know your strengths. It could come through workouts, a new hairstyle, or some sexy new clothes that will make his jaw drop. One thing is for sure: you’ll want to make him feel as if he needs to get back together immediately.
3. Keep Your Distance
This one may seem counterintuitive, but trust me, it’s not. Aquarius men like being independent, and they love having freedom. If your man broke up with you, especially, he will be looking for some time on his own. The best way to stay on his mind, then, is to be out of sight. Know that he will think of you more if you are out doing your own thing (which is a sign of independence that he can respect, anyway).
By creating this distance, you give him the breathing room to feel better while also learning what it’s like to be without you. This can be a sobering experience that causes him to miss you. This is a key step in trying to get an Aquarius man back.
4. Talk Seriously
If your Aquarius man is still spending time around you post-breakup, there are still things you can do to get him back. Of note, you can change the tenor of your conversations and talk about things that are more stimulating and interesting to him. Aquarius men naturally love talking about serious topics, so you could be winning some points with him by simply changing what it is that you talk about.
Just as importantly, make sure you aren’t talking about your relationship—at all. Doing so can make him feel as if you are pressuring him, which can drive him away further. For best results, simply focus on getting him back through more subtle means.
If your Aquarius man comes back to the table, be prepared to be on the losing side of the negotiations. For a relationship to work with him, you’ll have to accept that there are some things he won’t or can’t stop doing. You’ll need to give him his space and to respect his feelings. Ask yourself this question: what’s better, dating a man who does some things you don’t like or being single?
Compromising is not only a way to get back together, but it’s also a means of having a happier relationship once the two of you are an item again. If you feel like he is ready to date you again, then, make sure you listen to what he says and gives him the breathing room he needs to be happy in your relationship.
The Bottom Line
Ready to get an Aquarius man back in your life? By following the tips in this guide, you can do just that. By reinventing yourself, creating distance, and simply looking your best, you can get your man’s mind back on you—even if he were the one to break up.
Just experienced your breakup? The sooner you act on these tips, the better! If you want your Aquarius man to come back, start working today by using this guide!
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