How to get an Aries man interested again
Aries is ruled by the masculine planet Mars. Its element is fire which is extroverted and outgoing. As a cardinal modality, Aries is an initiator with the immense energy to start new things.
It’s not difficult to read an Aries. They are direct in their mannerisms and in communication with others. An Aries doesn’t dwell on emotions, but they also don’t hide them. They can be easily diverted and have a new emotion right away.
The aggressiveness of Mars, it’s ruling planet, can make an Aries quick to anger and say things they don’t mean or do things that can spite others. Just as quickly as they get mad, they are also over it just as quickly. It’s important to be a somewhat forgiving, but never accept abuse.
Aries is known for their impulsivity. They like instant gratification and needing everything right now.
Aries energy is not emotionally deep. Aries is the sign of independence and they tend to be emotionally independent as well. They don’t dwell on heavy emotions and can console themselves. They expect their partners to have the same trait and fix things quickly.
They love debates and intense physical activity without holding grudges. They like to play and have fun. They experiment with life and when things don’t work out they can get back up and start on a new path with excitement and adventure.
Read next: How to Win Back an Aries Man
What to expect when an Aries man is interested in you
When the Aries man is interested in you, he is a go-getter and will begin to chase right away.
Some Aries men find it playful and flirty to make fun of you a little. Everyone doesn’t take well to this, but if you can stand up or defend yourself and even dish it back, you will gain his respect which is helpful if you want a long-term relationship with him.
If you are trying to get an Aries man interested in you it’s important to match his playful and spontaneous energy. He likes a care-free spirit who can connect to the full potential life has to offer. He needs a partner who is fun and positive to help him escape from the battle of life.
Be a winner, not a loser
The Aries man doesn’t like desperation and defeat. He is fulfilled by winning a prize that was challenging and involved a lot of effort to obtain it. He thrives on the chase and if you’re always available for him, it will bring about boredom and predictability which he can’t stand.
Clinginess is repelling and he will run the other way.
Don’t be too hard of a challenge like hiding your feelings too much. Aries judges the surface and needs to know that there is a chance of getting you. If you don’t show him something when it comes to being interested, he will change direction.
Get an Aries man to chase you again
You can attract an Aries man by being sexy. Look to your Mars sign to see what makes you uniquely sexy and play it up. Be a little hard to get and let him initiate dates, phone calls, and texts. Show him you are independent and that you have a life of your own that’s not surrounded by clinginess or depending on others.
He is traditional in the sense of the chase. Allow him to work hard to capture your heart.
He is skilled in the game of pursuit. If you want to make an Aries man interested in you again, back off a little to stir his curiosity. He values what he earns and wins, so if he’s lost interest, he probably feels he’s got you and the adventure is gone.
He moves quickly because that’s his nature, but don’t give in to his pursuits too quickly and don’t ever be fully ‘captured’. A relationship with an Aries man is a game of cat and mouse and he will pull out all the stops to get you.
The Aries man is the hunter of the zodiac. In order to get you, he uses his talents of:
● Charisma and charm
● Impulsiveness and speed
● Confidence and strength
You can slow him down and keep his attention by resisting a little and not allowing him to get you to move fast with him. Slow him down by:
● Standing up for yourself
● Taking charge
● Not revealing everything about yourself right away
● Not being intimate too quickly
● Controlling your emotions
Resisting him is a display of your strength to the Aries man. He honors self-respect and dignity.
An Aries man needs some drama
As a cardinal fire sign, he likes a challenge and the ups and downs are what keeps things interesting. Keep him interested by feeding a little bit into the drama and energy he brings. If he doesn’t have this in a relationship, he will get frustrated by the sameness and monotony of things and look for a way out.
Aries represents new energy, and if things are feeling the same, he will try to spark change or something new in a spontaneous way. Show that you are open to his adventurous ways to keep him interested.
Keep him chasing
If you are dating an Aries man or are in a relationship with him, it’s important to keep the chase going throughout the relationship. You have to work to keep an Aries attention because he’s always looking for the next exciting experience. I went over this in more detail in How to Get an Aries Man to Chase You Again.
It requires a lot of energy to be with the naturally free-spirited Aries.
Boost his ego to add fuel to the fire
Laying all of your emotional cards on the table will end the chase quickly.
Showing your fascination, clinginess, and full vulnerabilities too soon will leave you ghosted.
Get your Aries man back or interested again by boosting his ego a little. Do not do this through mind games and fakeness.
Show interest in his pursuits, but don’t be too impressed. Show that you notice his greatness or attractiveness, but make it seem as if you’ve seen it before you’ve dated or it’s what you’re used to. Aries rules the ego so he already thinks highly of himself.
Make him earn your compliments.
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