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How to Attract a Virgo Man Through Texting: 7 Top Tips

Virgo or the Maiden: August 23rd – September 22nd

Has a Virgo man caught your eye? He’s one good-looking guy and you’re looking to flirt with him a little but find yourself tongue-tied when trying to text him?

I look at the different types of text messages you can send to a Virgo man so he stays intrigued and want to find out more about you! Discover proven strategies to help attract your Virgo crush!

Have you typed out one or two messages to send to your Virgo guy, only to find yourself rewriting that same text to avoid looking stupid or embarrassing yourself? Or perhaps you’ve sent him a message on WhatsApp or Messenger only to delete the message leaving him wondering what you said?

Try not to overthink it!

Flirting with a Virgo man over text is pretty straight forward, if you know how he thinks. I’m going to explore a little bit about the Virgo traits and characteristics to help you understand him more then I’ll provide you with my proven methods of what to text him!

Virgo men don’t tend to express emotion very easily, which can make them look unapproachable and hard to talk to. They do not let people get close to them, they have this boundary around them to protect them from getting hurt, which also prevents them from making friends as well as getting close to a partner. Nor do Virgo men rush into a relationship with anybody.

I first had a relationship with a Virgo man back in College and no matter what I tried I just felt like I was falling flat, I felt no matter what I’d say to flirt or impress him, I just ended up looking stupid.

I was absolutely besotted with this Virgo guy, so I needed to find a new tactic. So, I started to read about Astrology and specifically about the Virgo zodiac. I couldn’t believe it. As I was reading article after article, I could relate to every trait of the Virgo man, he was acting exactly how those articles said he would.

It felt too good to be true, I remember feeling anxious about first messaging him after my new found insight into the Virgo man. But I kept hitting brick walls and at this point had nothing else to lose.

What I discovered was amazing!

I felt so confident after reading about the Virgo zodiac, like I had the answers to an exam. I finally knew what to message him, so I gave it a go and I couldn’t believe it. It was like I was talking to a different guy! I found a playbook to understand a Virgo man. Our relationship was instantly 10 times better afterwards.

Keep reading and learn how to attract a Virgo man via text.

How to attract a Virgo Man with Texting

If you’ve just swiped right or matched with a man you like on Tinder or Bumble. Or if you’ve met a guy at your friend’s wedding or another event. The first thing I recommend you do, is find out when his birthday is. This is the first step, and allows you to figure out what Zodiac you are dealing with.

Once you’re certain your crush is a Virgo man, you can then follow these genuine guidelines.

The Virgo man won’t fully open up to you or let his guard down until he feels secure and safe with you. Once he does, you’ll see a different side to him.

Read next: How Does a Virgo Man Act When He’s in Love

Romance these days starts with a fun and exhilarating round of texting.

Are you lost for words? Follow these 7 simple yet effective guidelines to follow when attracting a Virgo man via text.

1. Show that you’re intelligent

Virgo men aren’t just attracted to beauty then thrive off intellectual conversation. In order to get his attention, you need to send him text messages about interesting topics but make sure you’ve got your facts right, he’ll be attracted to you if you teach him a new fact he didn’t already know. Being able to maintain a conversation is much more important to a Virgo guy than looking beautiful.

Make certain to ask your Virgo man clever questions, but you also need to participate in the conversation.

Questions to ask:

  • What is your dream job? Where would you like to work and why?
  • What are your goals?
  • Do you have any ambitions for the future?
  • What drives you to be better?
  • Do you have any role models that you aspire to be like?

Here’s a few other rules to remember:

  • Avoid spelling mistakes or bad use of grammar
  • Don’t use text speak such as: wot r u up to (it’s lazy)
  • Avoid slang

The above rules are very important, you’ll definitely come across as unintelligent and he’ll lose interest fast!

2. Keep it light and fun!

While Virgo men like an intellectual conversation they also don’t want it to be overly serious so steer clear of politics or religion instead opt for travel, movies or music. Have some fun with these topics, send him funny gifs or memes, don’t go overboard with it.

Puns, lots of puns! Puns show that you’ve got a great balance between intellect and humor.

3. Text him first thing in the morning

Think of a nice message to text, perhaps compliment him or start the day with a pun. Either way the aim here, is to make him smile and start his day off by thinking about you.

Just remember, he might not react the way you want him to. This is due to Virgo men being emotional, he may be dealing with some issue or insecurity. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, there could be another issue else on his mind – remember it’s just a narrative you tell yourself.

Although this reminds me, avoid messages that will force him to confront his emotions or feelings. Steer well clear of sending this type of message.

Instead here’s a few great options for sending him a text in the morning:

  • Hey, I hope you slept well – I look forward to seeing you later
  • Morning, have a great day!
  • Good morning, don’t forget to [reminder]
  • Morning – good luck! I’m sending you positive vibes today – You got this.
  • I hope you had excellent sleeps – I can’t wait for an afternoon nap!

Remember, not to have expectations that he’ll text you, just send and forget. If he texts back it’s a bonus, but if he doesn’t it’s not a big deal.

4. Share Positivity and Success

Virgo men thrive on positive energy, if you’re having a good day make sure you tell him. He’ll be happy for you. Virgo men just want the best for people. A Virgo man likes to surround himself with positive vibes and successful people as that’s what he aspires to be. So, if you’ve just done an awesome thing at your work or finished a project that will be seen by hundreds of people or businesses – make certain to show or tell him.

Especially if it’s career focused – he’ll love that you’re so passionate about your career.

He wants to hear positivity not negativity, so if you’re the type that loves to moan about anything and everything, then text a friend to release those type of texts too, because your Virgo man won’t want to hear about it.

One of the amazing traits about a Virgo man, is they are caring and passionate. He genuinely cares about your happiness and success, he just wants the best for you. So he’ll probably tell you to celebrate your good news.

Remember to keep it light and positive, avoid negative emotions at all cost!

5. Make certain to text him randomly

Avoid falling in a routine, for example texting him every morning or evening at the same time. Instead keep it free and natural, text him randomly throughout the day. When you think of a funny or cute thing to message, don’t overthink it and just fire it off. Just don’t have an expectation that he’ll reply straight away or at all.

It may catch him off guard, or he may be focused on his work. Either way if he reads it, it will certainly make him think about you.

Impromptu texts are fun, friendly and exciting. By doing this, you’ll keep things spontaneous and keep your Virgo man interested in finding out more. He’ll be intrigued by your cute and flirtatious behavior.

If you really want to get his attention, try sending him a cute voice note of something only you two know about. An impression of a film actor or a quote that came up and you two laughed about for a while. If you’ve got an inside joke, play on that a little. Voice notes are great for making him smile, as it’s a hundred times better than a text.

Another option would be to send him a cute picture of you, nothing too silly but enough to get him thinking about you. It will make him want to text you back even more. Just stay alert that he may not reply, so do not take it personally.

6. Text him compliments

If you’ve fallen hard for your Virgo man, send him meaningful compliments but don’t go overboard. One thing to remember, is to keep it light and airy until he’s built up a comfortable relationship with you. Hold back on anything too emotional. Save those texts to tell your friend about your relationship with this Virgo man.

Compliment him on his film or music knowledge, or maybe how well travelled he is. Or that he’s got a lovely mannerism or nice eyes. The trick is to keep it light, don’t go too serious too soon.

7. Keep some mystery

When trying to attract your Virgo man through text, avoid oversharing. You need to remain a little mysterious to keep your Virgo crush intrigued. If you tell him everything there is to know about you, straight off the bat, well this leaves very little to imagination and he’ll soon lose interest.

Instead, create opportunities when texting each other that allow him to find out something he didn’t know about you. You have to keep it interesting! Avoid saying anything to negative and avoid putting yourself done when you first message or match with him. Instead have a little confidence and dazzle him with your intellect.

How do you know if a Virgo man likes you through texting?

You’ll soon know if your Virgo man is interested in you via text as he’ll of shown 3 or 4 of the above signs. The biggest sign that your he likes you though, is if he’s sharing secrets or emotions with you via text. This is a great sign! As it means he trusts you, he’s built up a good relationship with you and feels safe to tell you things he wouldn’t normally before.

How do you get a Virgo man to text you?

Ask his opinion on something, whether that be the latest movie at the cinema or a new album or song in the charts. Virgo men thrive on stimulating intellectual messaging. Find a topic that he loves and engage with him further.

  • Make him laugh
  • Be fun but thoughtful
  • Don’t be aggressive
  • Keep it honest

What happens when a Virgo man doesn’t text back?

Don’t put too much pressure on your Virgo crush to reply. Sometimes he’s just not in the mood for texting or communicating with anyone, so don’t take it personally. If he’s not replied after your first message, give it a few hours and message again but don’t message him more than twice in a row. Don’t text him too much, he doesn’t like to be pressured to reply.

Virgo men generally don’t text very much. They aren’t big fans of texting in general, but it doesn’t mean he’s not interested. In this day and age, people are expected to reply back instantly, this is not how the Virgo man works.

So, don’t hold any expectation that he has to reply, send him a message and forget about it. He will either reply to you or he won’t, don’t think about all the possible reasons why he hasn’t replied. Just go about your day.

When you next see him, you’ll have a great time but don’t bring up why doesn’t he text you back quicker or more often. Let him be, just adapt a little and remember not all Zodiacs are the same!

I know that isn’t ideal and will be hard to get used to, just have a little patience and you’ll soon understand this is just how Virgo men are.

Summary

There you have it, my 7 very best tips to attract your Virgo crush. So, what are you waiting for? Go and discover the power of Astrology today, it’ll be a good way to improve your relationship.

  • Avoid sending more than 3 messages in a row
  • Don’t pressure your Virgo man to reply
  • Give him compliments
  • Texting light and fun messages
  • Share your positive vibes and energy
  • Show off your intellect
  • Send him random voice notes or picture messages throughout the day

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